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Kamis, 30 November 2006

Pesan Sang Ayah

Dahulu kala ada 2 orang kakak beradik. Ketika ayahnya meninggal sebelumnya berpesan dua hal: pertama jangan menagih hutang kepada orang yang berhutang kepadamu, dan kedua jika mereka pergi dari rumah ke toko jangan sampai mukanya terkena sinar matahari.

Waktu berjalan terus. Dan kenyataan terjadi, bahwa beberapa tahun setelah ayahnya meninggal anak yang sulung bertambah kaya sedang yang bungsu menjadi semakin miskin. Ibunya yang masih hidup menanyakan hal itu kepada mereka. Jawab anak yang bungsu: Inilah karena saya mengikuti pesan ayah.

Ayah berpesan bahwa saya tidak boleh menagih hutang kepada orang yang berhutang kepadaku, dan sebagai akibatnya modalku susut karena orang yang berhutang kepadaku tidak membayar sementara aku tidak boleh menagih.

Juga ayah berpesan supaya kalau saya pergi atau pulang dari rumah ke toko dan sebaliknya tidak boleh terkena sinar matahari. Akibatnya saya harus naik becak atau andong. Sebetulnya dengan jalan kaki saja cukup, tetapi karena pesan ayah maka akibatnya pengeluaranku bertambah banyak.

Kepada anak yang sulung yang bertambah kaya, ibupun bertanya hal yang sama. Jawab anak sulung: Ini semua adalah karena saya mentaati pesan ayah. Karena ayah berpesan supaya saya tidak menagih kepada orang yang berhutang kepada saya, maka saya tidak menghutangkan sehingga dengan demikian modal tidak susut.

Juga ayah berpesan agar supaya jika saya berangkat ke toko atau pulang dari toko tidak boleh terkena sinar matahari, maka saya berangkat ke toko sebelum matahari terbit dan pulang sesudah matahari terbenam. Akibatnya toko saya buka sebelum toko lain buka, dan tutup jauh sesudah toko yang lain tutup. Sehingga karena kebiasaan itu, orang menjadi tahu dan tokoku menjadi laris, karena mempunyai jam kerja lebih lama.

Bagaimana dengan anda? Kisah diatas menunjukkan bagaimana sebuah kalimat di tanggapi dengan persepsi yang berbeda jika kita melihat dengan positif attitude maka segala kesulitan sebenarnya adalah sebuah perjalanan membuat kita sukses tetapi kita bisa juga terhanyut dengan adanya kesulitan karena rutinitas kita.. pilihan ada di tangan anda.

'Berusaha melakukan hal biasa yang dikerjakan dengan cara yang luar biasa'

My Most Pessimistic Statement!! Haha

Anyway, this is a past in my life, even sometimes i still feel this :)


if tears can b sold, i can b rich just because i know u

만일에 눈물을 팔수있다면 나는 부자가 될꺼야.
왜냐면 나는 너를 아니까.

如果泪花装 于罐中被卖, 我能是富有的正因为我认识您

Scratches In My Heart

Rabu, 29 November 2006

Ice Cream Dragon

This is a dragon made of ice cream. My chinese horoscope... how can it seems so funny like that? hahaha.

Mango Yeast Bread - Made as Cinnamon Rolls



I add mango in the ingredients, and the bread's colour turned yellow :D how fun !! It stays soft after 3rd day in room temperature.. such a nice bread, in my opinion.

This one is based on the Banana Yeast Bread by Amal's Kitchen, only i made some modification. I used whipping cream instead of water, and i used mango instead of banana. I made the sugar by 10 grams less and used coconut oil.

Very recommended !!






























Links : Banana Yeast Bread by Amal Kitchen

Stones in Your Life

One day an expert in “Time Management” talk in front of a group of college student, and he made an illustration which cannot be forget easily by his students.

When he stands in front, he place a large jar on the table. And he also takes outside around a dozen of big stones, handful size, and put it in the jar, one by one, carefully. When the stones have made the jar full, till the neck, he asked, “Is this jar full?”

All the students immediately answer : “Yes” Then he said, “Really?” After that he grab from under the table, a bunch of gravel and put it in the jar, shaking the jar a little, so the gravel get its own space between the stones.

Then he asked to the students once again “Is this jar full?” This time the students stupefied, “Maybe not”, one of the students answer.

“Good!!”, he said.

Once again he reached to under the table, and take out a basket of sands. He started to put the sands into the jar, and the sands immediately fill the spaces between the gravels and the stones.

Once again he asked, “Is this jar full?”

All at once, the student answered “No, not yet” And once again he said “Good!!”

Then again he grabbed a bottle of water and started to pour the water to the jar, till the jar is full to the top. Then the “time management experts” starring at the students, and ask “what is the meaning of this illustration?”

An enthusiastic student straightly answered “The point is, no matter how full is your schedule, if you try then you still can insert other schedule in there”


“No” the expert said, “The point is not that. Actually this illustration teach us that if you don’t put in the stones the first time, then you will never can put in the stones to the jar”

What are the stones in your life? Maybe your children, your spouse, the one you loved, your friendship, your health, your dreams. The things you consider the most precious thing in your life. Remember to always put the stones in the first place, or you will never have time to pay attention to them. If you put small things in your time priority, you will never have time to do the big and valuable things in your life.

Author unknown

Nervous - Financial Comparison Project / Proyek Membuat Laporan Keuangan Komparasi

This, i will fill this post with the Financial Comparison Project given by Mr SY at the office...

so here is a link to begin with : Link for Financial Comparison Template by Microsoft Office

I think this link is quite good, so i begin this article with try to get data from RTI for the Peers data.
Try to find industry average ratios
Dug into several ways on how to compute ROE (Return On Equity)
1. How to Calculate ROE Link 1
2. How to Calculate ROE Link 2
3. How to Calculate ROE Link 3
4. How to Calculate ROE Link 4
Masih banyak lagi cara-cara yang bisa dicari dari hasil pencariiannya om google misalnya jurnal ini nih, yang artikel2nya dalam bahasa indonesia.. Link Ke Website Jurnal Akuntansi Keuangan
Dari sekian banyak Link untuk belajar ROE ini, menurut saya sih website Jurnal Akuntansi Keuangan cukup menarik ya.. oke, sementara ini dulu, nanti saya update lagi,

The Five Love Languages

taken from The Five Love Language by Garry D. Chapman

Words of Affirmation
Mark Twain once said “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” Verbal appreciation speaks powerfully to persons whose primary Love Language is “Words of Affirmation.” Simple statements, such as, “You look great in that suit,” or “You must be the best baker in the world! I love your oatmeal cookies,” are sometimes all a person needs to hear to feel loved.
Aside from verbal compliments, another way to communicate through “Words of Affirmation” is to offer encouragement. Here are some examples: reinforcing a difficult decision; calling attention to progress made on a current project; acknowledging a person’s unique perspective on an important topic. If a loved one listens for “Words of Affirmation,” offering encouragement will help him or her to overcome insecurities and develop greater confidence.
Quality Time
Quality time is more than mere proximity. It’s about focusing all your energy on your mate. A husband watching sports while talking to his wife is NOT quality time. Unless all of your attention is focused on your mate, even an intimate dinner for two can come and go without a minute of quality time being shared.
Quality conversation is very important in a healthy relationship. It involves sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context. A good mate will not only listen, but offer advice and respond to assure their mate they are truly listening. Many mates don’t expect you to solve their problems. They need a sympathetic listener.
An important aspect of quality conversation is self-revelation. In order for you to communicate with your mate, you must also be in tune with your inner emotions. It is only when you understand your emotions and inner feelings will you then be able to share quality conversation, and quality time with your mate.
Quality activities are a very important part of quality time. Many mates feel most loved when they spend physical time together, doing activities that they love to do. Spending time together will bring a couple closer, and, in the years to come, will fill up a memory bank that you can reminisce about in the future.Whether it’s sitting on the couch and having a brief conversation or playing together in a tennis league, quality time is a love language that is shared by many. Setting aside focused time with your mate will ensure a happy marriage.
Receiving Gifts
Some mates respond well to visual symbols of love. If you speak this love language, you are more likely to treasure any gift as an expression of love and devotion. People who speak this love language often feel that a lack of gifts represents a lack of love from their mate. Luckily, this love language is one of the easiest to learn.
If you want to become an effective gift giver, many mates will have to learn to change their attitude about money. If you are naturally a spender, you will have no trouble buying gifts for your mate. However, a person who is used to investing and saving their money may have a tough time adjusting to the concept of spending money as an expression of love. These people must understand that you are investing the money not in gifts, but in deepening your relationship with your mate.
The gift of self is an important symbol of love. Sometimes all your mate desires is for someone to be there for them, going through the same trials and experiencing the same things. Your body can become a very powerful physical symbol of love.
These gifts need not to come every day, or even every week. They don’t even need to cost a lot of money. Free, frequent, expensive, or rare, if your mate relates to the language of receiving gifts, any visible sign of your love will leave them feeling happy and secure in your relationship.
Acts of Service
Sometimes simple chores around the house can be an undeniable expression of love. Even simple things like laundry and taking out the trash require some form of planning, time, effort, and energy. Just as Jesus demonstrated when he washed the feet of his disciples, doing humble chores can be a very powerful expression of love and devotion to your mate.
Very often, both pairs in a couple will speak to the Acts of Service Language. However, it is very important to understand what acts of service your mate most appreciates. Even though couples are helping each other around the house, couples will still fight because they are unknowingly communicating with each other in two different dialects. For example, a wife may spend her day washing the cars and walking to dog, but if her husband feels that laundry and dishes are a superior necessity, he may feel unloved, despite the fact that his wife did many other chores throughout the day. It is important to learn your mate’s dialect and work hard to understand what acts of service will show your love.
It is important to do these acts of service out of love and not obligation. A mate who does chores and helps out around the house out of guilt or fear will inevitably not be speaking a language of love, but a language of resentment. It’s important to perform these acts out of the kindness of your heart.
Demonstrating the acts of service can mean stepping out of the stereotypes. Acts of service require both mates to humble themselves into doing some chores and services that aren’t usually expected from their gender. However, these little sacrifices will mean the world to your mate, and will ensure a happy relationship.
Physical Touch
Many mates feel the most loved when they receive physical contact from their partner. For a mate who speaks this love language loudly, physical touch can make or break the relationship.
Sexual intercourse makes many mates feel secure and loved in a marriage. However, it is only one dialect of physical touch. Many parts of the body are extremely sensitive to stimulation. It is important to discover how your partner not only physically responds but also psychologically responds to these touches.
It is important to learn how your mate speaks the physical touch language. Some touches are irritating and uncomfortable for your mate. Take the time to learn the touches your mate likes. They can be big acts, such as back massages or lovemaking, or little acts such as touches on the cheek or a hand on the shoulder. It’s important to learn how your mate responds to touch. That is how you will make the most of this love language.
All marriages will experience crisis. In these cases, physical touch is very important. In a crisis situation, a hug can communicate an immense amount of love for that person. A person whose primary love language is physical touch would much rather have you hold them and be silent than offer any advice.
It is important to remember that this love language is different for everyone. What type of touch makes you feel secure is not necessarily what will make your partner happy. It is important to learn each other’s dialects. That way you can make the most of your hugging, kissing, and other physical contacts.

You Were Part of My Life

One day someone came into my life, time went by, and we were so close.. that person, gave me the quotation about love and companionship, and left me after that, without a word. Just now the same person take a look at my blog, and wondering, why I put the quotation given by him sometimes ago in my blog. “You were part of my life, and my blog is where I record my pieces of life, that’s why.”
This someone, wants to make me think that he left me for my own good, bcause he said he has a very big problem with his health.. but all means nothing already.

Hello – Lionel Richie

I've been alone with you inside my mind
And in my dreams I've kissed your lips a thousand times
I sometimes see you pass outside my door
Hello, is it me you're looking for?
I can see it in your eyes
I can see it in your smile
You're all I've ever wanted, (and) my arms are open wide
'Cause you know just what to say
And you know just what to do
And I want to tell you so much, I love you ...
I long to see the sunlight in your hair
And tell you time and time again how much I care
Sometimes I feel my heart will overflow
Hello, I've just got to let you know
'Cause I wonder where you are
And I wonder what you do
Are you somewhere feeling lonely, or is someone loving you?
Tell me how to win your heart
For I haven't got a clue
But let me start by saying, I love you ...
Hello, is it me you're looking for?
'Cause I wonder where you are
And I wonder what you do
Are you somewhere feeling lonely or is someone loving you?
Tell me how to win your heart
For I haven't got a clue
But let me start by saying ...
I love you

Cinta Sendiri – Kahitna

Kauungkapkan kepadaku
Kan ada saatnya nanti, engkau milikku satu
Kumenunggu dalam bimbang
Adakah sungguhnya aku, kasih yang kau inginkan
Biar aku yang pergi, bila tak juga pasti
Ada kah selama ini aku cinta sendiri
Biar aku menepi, bukan lelah menanti
Namun apalah artinya
Cinta pada bayangan
Pedih aku rasakan
Kenyataannya
Cinta tak harus slalu miliki

Kumenunggu dalam bimbang
Adakah sungguhnya aku, kasih yang kau inginkan
Biar aku yang pergi, bila tak juga pasti
Ada kah selama ini aku cinta sendiri
Biar aku menepi, bukan lelah menanti
Namun apalah artinya
Cinta pada bayangan
Pedih aku rasakan
Kenyataannya
Cinta tak harus slalu miliki

Jujur aku tak yakin bisa
Jalani hari tanpa dirimu
Namun apalah artinya cinta pada bayangan..
Biar aku yang pergi, bila tak juga pasti
Ada kah selama ini aku cinta sendiri
Biar aku menepi, bukan lelah menanti
Namun apalah artinya
Cinta pada bayangan

One Sided Love - Kahitna

You said to me,
The time will come, when you will be mine, only.
I wait anxiously
Am I really the one you want?
Let me be the one who leave, if there is no certainty
Do I have one sided love all this time ?
Let me step aside, not because I am weary
But what is the meaning,
in love with a shadow..?
Feel so hurt
The truth is
Love doesn’t have to own.

I wait anxiously
Am I really the one you want?
Let me be the one who leave, if there is no certainty
Do I have one sided love all this time ?
Let me step aside, not because I am weary
But what is the meaning,
in love with a shadow..?
Feel so hurt
The truth is
Love doesn’t have to own.

Honestly, I am not sure whether I can
Walk the day without you
But what is the meaning, to be in love with a shadow?
Let me be the one who leave, if there is no certainty
Do I have one sided love all this time ?
Let me step aside, not because I am weary
But what is the meaning,
in love with a shadow..

My Hearth

Disini, kau dan aku (here, you and me)
Terbiasa bersama (used to be together)
Menjalani kasih sayang (Walk the way of love)
Bahagia ku dengan mu (feeling happy, I am with you)

Pernahkah kau menguntai, (have you ever string)
hari paling indah (the most beautiful day)
Kuukir nama kita berdua (I crave both of our names)
Disini, surga kita (here, in our heaven)

Bila kita mencintai yang lain (If we love somebody)
Mungkinkah hati ini akan tegar (could we be this strong)
Sebisa mungkin tak akan pernah sayangku akan hilang
(wouldn’t risk my love even just one night, our love will stay in my heart)

If we love somebody could we be this strong?
I will fight to win and love will conguer all
Wouldn’t risk my love even just one night
our love will stay in my heart
My heart

I'll Wait For You (If I fall behind)

Bruce Springsteen
We said we'd walk together baby come what may
That come the twilight should we lose our way
If as we're walkin a hand should slip free
I'll wait for you
And should I fall behind
Wait for me
We swore we'd travel darlin' side by side
We'd help each other stay in stride
But each lover's steps fall so differently
But I'll wait for you
And if I should fall behind
Wait for me
Now everyone dreams of a love lasting and true
But you and I know what this world can do
So let's make our steps clear that the other may see
And I'll wait for youIf I should fall behind
Wait for me
Now there's a beautiful river in the valley ahead
There 'neath the oak's bough soon we will be wed
Should we lose each other in the shadow of the evening trees
I'll wait for you
And should I fall behind
Wait for me
Darlin' I'll wait for you
Should I fall behind
Wait for me

KINI

Artist: Rossa
Kusadari semua jalanku tak berarah kepadamu
I realized, all my way is not directed to you
Mungkin salah diri ini memikirkanmu
Maybe I am not supposed to think about you
Aku kini tlah berdua dan tak seindah cinta yang lalu
I am now has somebody and its not as beautiful as the previous love
Yang jalan dan jalin tanpa restu kuakhiri
Which walk and sting without permission I ended
Namun tak berakhir kuhindari
But its not ended I avoid
Hati tak ingin berpisah
This heart don’t want to separate
Bila kau dengan yang lain ..sesungguhnya ..
If you are with someone else, honestly
Aku tak rela
I am not willing
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